Oneness class for Gujarat -

Q.1.)Bhagavan, in spite of all the efforts and teachings, we still find that we have not discovered unconditional love in our relationships; we are still only 'managing' the relationships. What can we do and how can we discover Unconditional love?


Bhagavan answered: "You can experience uncondional love only when you are enlightened. To experience Unconditional Love, you should be a Mukta. But till then you can discover the following kind of love.


How can you discover love in relationships? If your relationship has to be set right, the only way is: 'you should become the other'. At present you are not 'becoming' the other. You are analyzing, judging, explaining away, or blaming the other in your relationships. What you need is to BECOME the OTHER. First you should realize that you are only judging, explaining, analyzing and blaming the other and not experiencing the other. Then, you  become helpless and pray to Amma Bhagavan to 'become' the other. When you come to the higher processes, Amma and bhagavan will make you experience the other. Then you will BECOME the OTHER  in your relationships".


Q.2. In spite of doing so many things, we are still stuck with problems, Bhagavan.  How do we overcome the worldly problems, Bhagavan?


Bhagavan answers: "Your entire life is programmed in the unconscious mind. To whom you will be born, what work you will do, whom you will marry, how many children you will have - all these things are programmed in the unconscious mind. Like you have programs in your computers, the programs in the unconscious mind make your life.


You have to discover the negative program that is creating the problem. The moment you see the negative program, the negative program has no effect. All you have to do is: discover it. That is all. Then it is gone. The problem due that negative program is also gone. When you come to higher processes, Amma and Bhagavan will help you to discover these negative programs.


Q.3. How are the webcast darshans helping enlightenment, Bhagavan?


Bhagavan's Answer: "We raise your kundalini through the web cast meditation. In order to get enlightened, your kundalini has to be raised in a particular way. Your kundalini can rise when you hear the roar of a lion or when you hear the noise of an aircraft. If this is the case, then all people who visit the zoo or the airport must have got enlightened. But the thing is: the kundalini has to be raised in a particular way. If the kundalini is raised to the Anahata chakra, you get the christian enlightenment; when kundalini is raised to the Vishuddhi chakra, you get the Islam type of enlightenment; when kundalini is raised to the Aagneya chakra, you get buddhist enlightenment; and when kundalini is raised upto the Sahasrara chakra, you get the Hindu type of enlightenment.


The type of enlightenment you get depends on your various Conditioning,(family conditioning, social conditioning,  religious conditioning, etc.) what god or way you pray, the teachings you follow, etc. In oneness, we allow all ways. We do not specify any particular way. That is why it is ONENESS. We can give any type of enlightenment suitable to you.


When you come to the processes here, we raise your kundalini through powerful deekshas and give you enlightenment".


4.When will the 64000 (70,000 now) Kalki army meditate with you in the temple, Bhagavan?


Bhagavan says: "This will happen in 2012".


5. What is the Qualification for entering the 64000 army, Bhagavan?


Bhagavan said:  "In order to be a part of the 64000 army, you should have the following:


(1) You should have a very powerful antaryamin,
(2) Your horse,
(3) Your sword,
(4) You should have drunk the Divine Nectar (amrut),
(5) You must enter the Great Hall - the special place in satyaloka. You should be welcomed to the special palace in Satyaloka, the abode of all Gods, Prophets, Saints, etc. You may have entered and roamed around Satyaloka. Still you may not be allowed to enter this special, Divine Palace in Satyaloka. At the entrance of this special place, you may be welcomed inside or the gate may get closed. To qualify for the 64000 army, you should have been welcomed and entered this special place.


6. What is the purpose of the Tree Plantation Project that the Kalki Seva Trust has undertaken, Bhagavan?


BNhagavan: "This project not only helps the environment; it also helps you to grow spiritually. As per this project, you plant as many trees as possible by chanting the moola mantra and water them and take care of them everyday. You see, many of you are coming to us to solve your various external problems like finance, health, etc. Many a times, the cause of these problems is not because of negative programming in the unconscious mind. Though you may not have a negative programming, these problems may still exist because you do not have enough sat-karma to overcome these problems. Hence, by planting tress, you not only help the environment and Mother Earth, but you also get a lot of satkarma. As the trees grow, you get more and more sat-karma. The opposite is also true. If you cut trees, you get negative karma. Anything you do to help this earth, you will get plenty of sat-karma.


Eventually, I and Amma use this sat-karma to solve your financial problem or to remove an ailment in your body. That is why we have undertaken these projects.


7. Bhagavan, In the outer world, we are always surrounded by so many problems and we are unable to manage them. Can you tell us what to do and how to deal with these problems, Bhagavan?


Bhagavan: "Amma and Bhagavan will come as powerful Antaryamin and deal with these things for you and solve all your problems. But there is one major hurdle - your core relationships are not in order. If you can focus on these relationships, Amma and Bhagavan will solve these problems for you.


8. How to get close to amma bhaghavan? What makes Amma bhagavan most happy? How can we make Amma Bhagavan happy?


Amma bhagavan are most happy when you set right your relationships with your parents, spouse, children, brothers, sisters and co-workers. In order to set right your relationships, you should become the 'other'. When you set right your relationships by becoming the other, Amma Bhagavan become very powerful within you. We can do plenty of miracles everyday. Your whole day will be full of miracles. For example, in Khammam, in Amma Bhagavan temple, every day miracles are happening. Amnma Bhagavan are writing letters to devotees everyday. Padukas and Sri murtis are moving all around by themselves. For such miracles to happen in your life, 'you should become the other' in your relationships.

Teaching : Set right Your Relationship

Q.) Why does it feel so difficult to set the relationships right with one's own family. Is it Karma? Could you tell us something about family and collective Karma and what to do about it?

SRI BHAGAVAN: "This problem of relationship must be handled at three levels.At the first level you could use the teachings.Now very often we have bad relationships because we have been conditioned wrongly and we do not have certain insights.So the teaching would help you there.

For example, he teaching says: to have good relationship start with yourself, not with the other. See who you are, accept yourself as you are and love yourself as you are'. When this happens very naturally the other person would see you as you are, would accept you as you are, would love you as you are.

I will give you an example for this. Some time ago a couple came to meet us and they had very bad relationship. So the lady said, 'this man is a drunkard and I cannot live with him'. And the man said, 'she is a flirt and I cannot live with her'. That was their problem. So we told them, 'look,here we do not work on the other, we work on oneself'. So we took up the case of the flirt and we said look, 'we are not going to transform him who is a drunkard; we are going to transform you'. So what you should do is see, look into yourself as to why you are a flirt; you must see that. Having seen that accept that-'yes I am a flirt'. Accept it. Once you accept it, you will start loving yourself, 'yes I am a flirt,this is what I am'. And you fall in love with yourself. Now then this happens very naturally. We were actually working with her and she began to see that man as he is, as to why he is behaving the way he is behaving. She accepted him as he is and she loved him as he is. She did not ask that he must give up drinking. Because she accepted herself and fell in love with herself, she accepted him and loved him.  That happened to her.


The drunkard on other hand, he was looking into himself, he saw why he was drinking, that he is a drunkard, he accepted that and he fell in love with himself. Once he did that, he could also accept her as a flirt, and accept and love her also. Now we did not change the flirt into something else nor the drunkard into something else. They accepted themselves. Therefore they could accept each other. But something strange happened after that. She ceased to be a flirt and he ceased to be a drunkard. But our object was only helping them to accept themselves and love themselves. So teaching can help like that.

The other thing is in relationships we build up images.Suppose you get married you start building up images about your wife and the wife about the husband. It can happen between any two people.There after the images start relating and you stop experiencing the person. Then also relationship dies.

So in many many ways teachings can help you but that is still only the first level. Sometimes what ever you might do, the mind gets stuck. It will be playing the record again and again and again. For 20 years he will be repeating the same thing without any change. That also destroys relationship. You will say ten years ago you did this, twenty years ago you did this. The record goes on and on and on.To stop that you must give a powerful deeksha which can shift the mind into another dimension. There deeksha comes into play and helps you.

Now that also may not work always, in which case you must have to go into Karma. Karma would mean what happened at the moment of conception, what were your mother's thoughts when you were being carried in the womb. What happened in the womb and how exactly you were delivered, the first six hours after deivery and sometimes you might have to go into past lives. So at that level we can solve any problem.

So first you start applying the teaching. Next you try deeksha. With the teaching if it is solved, fine. Otherwise use deeksha. If that does not work then move on to find out Karma. For Karma, all that you must do is, you must relax well, move into the hypnogobic state, the state between waking and sleep -move into that state. Take a blessing from the SRI MURTHY and say 'Please AMMA BHAGAVAN show me where the problem is'. We will rewind the tape and we will exactly show you what went wrong where. We will pin point the problem, ie, your Karma and then we will re work it. Once we rework it, the entire thing will start off in just twenty four hours.

So that is how you have to handle the problem of relationships. Step by step, you have got to move."